I heard on the news the other day that there is a new trend amongst parents not to overspend when buying Christmas presents for their children. Instead they are buying four gifts: something they want, something they need, something to wear and something to read.
I hadn’t really considered it before but this is more or less what I always did for my daughters when they were growing up. I didn’t have the money to spend hundreds on each of them, but I wouldn’t even if I had been loaded.
They had a main present -something I knew they had been hankering after – some little gifts like sweets and colouring pens, maybe an item of clothing like pyjamas or a new dress, books and perhaps a coat they needed. I asked my daughter if she felt she missed out and she said she definitely didn’t.
Before I had children I spent Christmas with a couple of quite well off friends with a two year old son. This little boy had so many presents it was obscene. They lined one long wall! He got over excited and was mostly running around throwing wrapping paper about. He couldn’t be bothered to open them all let alone take any time playing with them. He also didn’t open the little gift I had bought him so I have no idea if he liked it. I expect it ended up at the charity shop with half the other stuff!
I swore that I would never do that to my own children. I wanted them to show appreciation and gratitude, and to enjoy their gifts of course.
I am always amazed at people who get so swept up in the Christmas frenzy they buy their kids an x- box rather than paying the rent. So I will be embracing this trend and I hope it spreads!